Frequently Asked Questions
How this community works, who can post where, what moderators do, and what happens to anything you write.
- Written and reviewed by
- Support After Infidelity editorial and moderation team
- Estimated reading time
- About 6 minutes
- Published
- January 10, 2026
- Last updated
- February 14, 2026
What is Support After Infidelity
This is a private, moderated peer-support community for adults whose lives or relationships have been affected by infidelity. Members use an anonymous screen name rather than a legal name, and the community welcomes people at every stage — from the first hours after discovery through reconciliation, separation, and life afterward.
Who can post where
Anyone can read the forums and the Recovery Library. Posting a discussion or reply requires a verified member account. A small number of forums, such as I Just Found Out and Accountability and Personal Change, carry additional participation guidance because of how sensitive the conversations there tend to be.
What happens to what you write
Your posts, journal entries, and messages are stored securely and are never indexed by public search engines. Moderators only review specific content when it is reported, and every moderation action is recorded in an internal audit log.
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Sources and limits of this article
This guide describes patterns members of this community consistently report, alongside general public guidance about stress, safety, and personal decision-making. It makes no clinical, legal, or financial claims, and it is not a substitute for assessment by a qualified professional. Every sensitive resource is read by a person before publication.